By Anonymous on Tue 27 Feb 2001 at 19:26
How does one meet peple with the same fetish interests? We have visited several clubs and had a great time but it's difficult to meet others especially with the loud music.
We've tried the following advert on several personal sites: "Hello, We are a monogamous couple into rubber, leather, bondage and fem dom. (She dom., he sub.)We enjoy good food, wine, music and travel. We would like to meet a similar monogamous couple ( of our age say 40 to 50 ) for friendship, to enjoy socialising and to visit fetish clubs. We live in north Herts. and have an apartment in north London. Please tell us something about yourselves and we will arrange to meet over dinner somewhere. Regards...... (our email address)"
You would think others would understand that we were looking for friendship not sex. After all we did say monogamous twice. Still most of the replies came from people who wanted to jump straight into bed with us .Why when lots of couples are advertising for just that ?
Can anyone suggest a more appropriate way to meet others?
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