Tight Laced (November)Review: Event

A month ago I reviewed Tight Laced, a small fetish night in the Cambridge area. I said at the time that I would definitely be going to the next one, and amazingly I actually managed it!

This month's Tight Laced event was held on Thursday the 9th, at the same venue as last time, the Q club. I didn't make it until 11pm (planning not a strong point here) so I had to pay £3 to get in... which still seems extremely cheap to me.

I took a couple of friends along this time, as the last one had been such good value for money... sadly, I don't think this month's event was as good as the last one, although we all had a pleasant evening, and my friends both said they will probably go again. Apparently a lot of the regulars went off to some big bi-annual goth event in Whitby, so that thinned the numbers out to a dangerously low level... there were just enough people to maintain a club atmosphere, but only just... if any large groups had left, it would have looked seriously underpopulated.

We arrived in the middle of what was apparently a very long and deeply unpopular set of drum and bass... not that there was anything wrong with it, it sounded pretty good, and was well mixed, it was just that almost no-one wanted to listen to it... the set lasted at least from when we arrived to about midnight, and had been going for 'about an hour' before that according to the people who complained to me. I did wonder if anyone had actually mentioned their apparent boredom with the music to the promoters, as the four people on the dancefloor were having so much fun that they might not have noticed that they were the only four in the place who liked the music at that stage. Still, new(ish) events have to try these things - one of the things that impressed me about this venue was the different styles of music, mainly dance but with industrial and some oddities thrown in for good measure... another style was worth trying, and (given appropriate feedback) I don't imagine they'll have a drum and bass set next time, or at least not a very long one.

When the DJ switched at around midnight, things really kicked in, with more than a dozen people swarming for the dancefloor the minute the hard house and techno tunes started to sound out (a dozen is quite respectable for a dancefloor this size, in case you were wondering!). From here on, the music was the same excellent mix as last time, and I danced quite a bit all the way from here to closing time (which was about 20 past 1, with the venue owner really pushing his 1am licence as far as he dared - top man!)

The people who were there seemed a similar mix to last time - most people were making a really good effort to dress up, and some were really not making any effort at all... in fact I suspect some of them might not have got in had the place been a bit busier. On the plus side, as with last time, those who weren't dressed up didn't seem to be the usual 'jeans and tshirt and stare at the girls' brigade, so they weren't ruining anything other than the look of the event - the mood was good. I didn't get to speak to so many people this time, as I was with friends, but those I did chat to seemed very friendly, including the venue owner who was going around chatting with the customers, always good to see.

I'm told the dungeon equipment is due to arrive in time for the next event - I didn't get to speak to the promoters for very long so I don't know what sort of thing they have ordered... they are planning on curtaining off the area off to one side of the dancefloor to make a slightly more private play space as well, which I think will go down well (and those I mentioned it to on the night certainly liked the idea).

There is a danger that the next couple of these events might be a bit quiet, as any students (and most people at the club seem young enough to be students) will be on holiday, and therefore possibly not in town. Still, at £2 to get in (if you manage to get yourself organised better than me) it might be worth getting down there to see the new dungeon area before the crowds get to it in February! And of course, I could be completely wrong, I don't know how many of the customers are actually students, or if they plan to go home for Xmas either.

So, all in all, although this event wasn't quite a good as the last one, I think Tight Laced still shows plenty of promise, and I think the arrival of the dungeon kit will really mark the start of a new era for the club, distancing it from the goth and rock clubs it shares a venue with... so once again (if I can get myself organised three months in a row!) I'll be going to the next one... see you there?

 
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Thumbs up from me...#1

Tight laced was a small and cosy gathering and more of a fancy dress party than fetish, but I still enjoyed myself. As mentioned before, a lot of the music was drum and bass, which I personally enjoyed when I finally relaxed enough to get on the dance floor though most of the customers weren't too impressed.

The bar didn't have pumps so all the beer was sold in cans, which made it slightly more expensive than MK, but how that compares to average prices in cambridge I've no idea. The decor was interesting and the place was clean and tidy, though perhaps a little too well lit for my tastes. Most of the people there were dressed in fetish clothes with a few others in goth and club wear.

I'll be going back.

PS: if the mathematician with the nice coffee is reading drop us a line! ( simon@explodingsheep.org or denny@ukfetish.info ) as we forget to give you our email addresses ( wonder why?! ;)

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Tight Laced (November 9th)#2

I think the problem isnt dressing up, its finding something to wear in cambridge. The only places so far that Ive managed to find is Sunrise (hidiously expensive, not that much on offer), the alternative clothing sale..try saying latex and they look at you like youre mad, and that dodgy sex shop up mill road, where if youre not a size 8 or a size 18, your out of luck.

Trying to organize time out of work, uni to travel to London to buy something cool to wear for each occation, well i dont know about you lot, but i certainly dont have the time for it. Internet shopping, sure, if you want to wait 4 to 6 weeks to get a delivery and then will it fit or look like you thought it would? Probably not. Ive tried passing cataloges around, which seems to be working out fairly well, so that we can all order together.

In the end of this long and rather pointless rambeling, my point is.. I dont think its a lack of the will to get into the scene, as much as the lack of choice to do so. And what Cambridge needs, just as much as the venue, is some "decent" shops, so that everybody can come as they wish, instead of fear of being turned down, cuz youre not outrageous enough.

Despite all this, i had a good time, but I agree with before about the music. They played some decent tracks though, and ill admit i spent most of the night on the dance floor rather than at the bar, which is the norm.

A lil' torture dungeon would be excellent, im sure everyone who attents thinks the same. Though Roger (the owner) didnt look to impressed with the public display of hrm.. affection. But then each to their own, and if its in a "sealed" section, people would recive some privacy without being to sleezy.

i will definatly attend the next event, hopefully more dressed for the occation.

in darkness xx

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Places to shop#3

I remembered stumbling over this in my travels of Cambridge related websites about six months ago... I don't know how up to date it is, but I hope it's some use - a goth's guide to shopping in Cambridge

Regards,
Denny

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