Although they are more a feature of the BDSM community than the fetish community, the overlap between the two is obviously high. As you say you are into Fem Domme, then I imagine you would meet plenty of similarly minded people at your local munch, if there is one...

I would recommend you look on the informed consent website (link on our links page) and look for munches in your area.

Regards,
Denny

Hi ... had you put your Email address I would have replied directly. We are also a monogamous couple, fairly new to the scene and local to you. Furthermore, there is a brand new (as yet very small but very lively) group of friends just started up in Milton Keynes which includes five members from North Herts. I dont want to post my Email address here but if you contact Denny ... site owner ... I have given him permission to pass it on to you :o)

I actually stripped the email address out of the article myself - so that it didn't look like a thinly veiled personal ad rather than an article. Unfortunately I don't think I kept it afterwards, I don't tend to hang on to people's contact details without permission...

I'll pass you address on if the couple contact me anyway.

Regards,
Denny

I'm a girl who is interestd in bdsm but there is noone in my area who seems to have the same sentiments. I have asked some of my closest friends but all of them have said no and I'm too afraid that noone will understand if I ask them right off the bat. I'm also having trouble deciding if I'm dominant or submissive. Sometimes I feel dominant but I don't know how or what to do, same with submissiveness. There is hardly any way for me to meet other people much less people with the same interests.

many are the same as you, as i once was, all you can do is hang on in there, and maybe one day, luck will be on your side, dont answer and ads, or if you do, dont meet up with anyone, unless you have a freind with you, dom men can be dangarous, and some men will say anything to get their === away, there are many men out there and only a very few who will be honest, bare all this in mind and you will be ok, no email to us, as it is not something we wish to do, only trying to help, ad's do not work, all i can say really is go to fetish chat room's and spend a few months in these before you decide anything, you will soon learn via these room's that many people will only take the piss, they will not be honest, just be careful and stay safe.

I know what you are talking about. For me it has been a gradual development and I'm still learning about it. As for being dom or sub, why decide? I am usually sub but sometimes I love to dom too.

I'm sure in the end you'll find sympathetic people and you'll soon work out how you like to be dom or sub. Everyone has their little kinks and preferences!

underfoot

Hi there

It never ceases to amaze me that there are such nice, normal sounding girls like you out there looking for help with being both dominant and submissive and yet I've searched for as long as I can remember and can't seem to even get into a dialogue with anyone!! I'm Colin, slim, 6ft and also like to be both dominant and submissive as the mood takes me. I'm not some crazed psycho (as referred to in one of the other replies to your notice) and I'm also not some wildly experienced guy with a room full of equipment that would probably scare the life out of you! I'd be very happy to chat with you via email or msn for as long as you wish about this and then if you're happy, maybe we can meet somewhere neutral and safe (for both of us!). You can bring a friend if you wish...no problems there. my address is collywobble69@hotmail.com although that may be taken out by whoever oversees this site. Mail me...lets chat.
Colin

Depends on what you want, I like being gagged and chained.

dcdrac@yahoo.co.uk

Hi I dunno where you are from but Im chris from milton keynes england email me at chrishh1@aol.com I would love to try things with you.

Hi, my online nickname is tabbi, I recently discovered I am a sub (didn't know what it was about before). I found other fetish people through internet chat. I've met lots of different people into different things, there is an organisation called london communities, they run a chat room called london_based_bdsm, a lot of us get on there each evening. If you have access to IRC then the address you need is irc.bondage.com

London Communities holds a 'munch' every month at the Princess Louise pub in High Holborn. The next munch (just a social evening - vanilla clothes) is 20th April 2002, between 100 and 200 people get along there each munch. In addition to this they organise play parties, workshops in rope bondage and flogging and are very safety concious, especially when it comes to newbies. The web address for london comunities is www.londonbasedbdsm.com

You could do a lot worse than get yourself on the bondage chat server, and get to the next London munch, loads of people to meet...lots of info to exchange. Its become a must for me :o)

The server doesn't just cover london, so it's a good place to find people with similar interests as yourself from other parts of the country.

tabbi :o)

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