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By demuresub on Sun 5 Aug 2001 at 14:11

It is so difficult to meet genuine people in the Scene - we all know that and amongst the thousands of wannabes, timewasters and photo-collectors who claim to be genuine occasionally we find that all too rare Dominant or submissive.

I thought that I had found that special Domme this week. Tired, fed up and totally demoralised from writing endless letters and emails, of sending out photos and, well, simply wasting weeks of my life trying to find a Dominant female or couple I decided, about 3 weeks ago, to bombard every advert from a Dominant female or couple in every contact magazine, fetish personals web site, etc, that I saw.

I thought it had paid dividend this week when I got a reply to an ad that I had seen on bondage.com. It was from, supposedly, a Dominant couple in London where the female was 100% Domme and the male switch - apparently.

I wrote a long, detailed email to them and, in return, I got a similar reply from them stating how much they were into waxing, spankings, whippings, lots of bondage, electrical toys and so, so many things that they liked doing to sub TVs and females. They told me in detail how they would dominate me and how thigns would proceed upon meeting. How nice it was to get such a reply instead of just 'send us a picture...'

A few emails later and phone numbers were exchanged... We talked on the phone and, as things seemed to click, we decided to meet up on Saturday night. So, after a 4 hour and 220 mile drive I arived at the home of this Couple. Guess what...

Inside their house they had another couple there - a male Dom and a female sub. After chatting for an hour the male Dom took BOTH females upstairs to their playroom and began dominating them. My so-called Domme - the woman who had written to me at great lenght about how Domme she was - was now being tied up, whipped, punished and groped as a submissive.

Can you imagine how fed up, annoyed and downright miserable I felt at this? I had been lied to and even now, as I write, I feel so bloody angry. I felt and feel betrayed.

The reality is that they simply wanted a TV to play with and, when I made it clear that I could only submit to a Domme or a Couple with a Domme present, the foursome got quite annoyed and basically, rudely, could not wait to get me out of their house. It was 'drink up and go' which I, admittedly, wanted to do but these people were just so cold and rude because they were not getting a TV to play with along with their two female submissives.

Even as I write this I cannot work out why on earth a sub woman who have the nerve, or need, to adverise as a pretend Domme in order to meet other females and TVs.

During my 4 hour drive home I thought about it a great deal and now, many hours later, I just feel that yet again I have had the misfortune to come across pathetic timewasters and not the few, rare genuine people who do exist and who will hopefully understand my anger and frustration at this meeting.

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By ladypenelope on Sun 12 Aug 2001 at 23:35

as a newbie dominant female i am sympathetic to your situation.
maybe arrange a meeting on neutral ground first.
there are so many permutations in the scene......so maybe check things out a little more first.
i have had many replies to my advert ........with varying contents.
dont get despondent,all the best
ladyp