Ball-gags seem to be one of those things you either love or hate. I love them. There's just something about the look of a woman with her mouth held in a nice O shape ... :-)

Ok, they call it a sleep-mask, but it's the best blindfold I've ever come across.

The Erotic Awards are the longest running adult awards in the UK. Presented each year at the Sex Maniacs' Ball, they aim to "promote pride and excellence in the sex world".

The Advertising Standards Authority have banned a poster campaign from Yves St Laurent on the grounds that it featured a nude female in a reclining pose, and this was somehow indecent or pornographic.

This is a repost of a review I wrote of last month's Rapture, for the benefit of anyone reading here who is thinking of going to the next one...

Four weeks have passed since last I partied in Cambridge, and so it was that last night I found myself loading the car with music and friends and heading for another Tight Laced event...

We see the rumour mongers are at work again, so I will post in here. We would really like to do it "Face to Face" unfortunately the people concerned don't seem to go to BDSM clubs and talk to me.

Nanette & I spent a few hours at Erotica on the Friday night.

After being to two of the Manchester Community parties with my partner I can't let them go by uncommented.

Saturday night (2nd December) I went to Klymax, a fetish club night organised in Portsmouth and I think I can definitely say that a good time was had by all!