I have little faith in meeting a good partner on the internet but absolutely detest every fetish club I have been to! To qualify that, the bad elements massively out weigh the good for me. I am not an exhibitionist, in fact, I'm shy. The last thing I want when I meet someone who attracts me and may be interested in me, is to be scoped out by the many voyeuristic types. It is why many seem to be there and good luck to them - but providing them with wanking material makes my skin crawl.

I had a really good time at the last Erotic Eden, partially due to the company i was with but heh, that's another story. There were some minor hiccups on their first night, but overall a very good event. I was very much looking foreward to going to the event on the 25th, but I now have some concerns and reservations.

hi there. i went away for a day and come back to find yahoo had closed the group on one of their bids to remove bdsm from the internet. there will be a new group opening as soon as i get some answers from yahoo. Mystyx is NOT, i repeat NOT closing, and we actually have dates booked all the way up to the end of next year.

I am writing to inform you of our new adult auction website: www.bluebids.co.uk

Well if you think you're all spanked out after the recent showing of Dominatrix Reloaded, then hang on to your rubber and leather and tune into 'Fetish Friday' on Men and Motors.

I am writing to you about a TV programme produced by Shine for a major UK satellite Channel, called 'The Secret Life of Suburbia'. We are looking for willing paticipants for the show. Someone with a strange fetish... balloons, socks, pavements, etc... the stranger the better!

Denny said he'd like to see a review of the above event. I deliberately held back from doing that because I was roped in to help (so am probably more than a little biased) but here's what I wrote in my public weblog on IC:

I am new here, and I'm looking for help.

Hey there! My partner and are seriously thinking about going to the next Westward Bound Ball in the autumn (we were too late in buying a ticket for the summer Ball!).

I have been receiving quite a few calls about Absolution, and am trying to remove any doubt about the type of person that turns up to Absolution via this space. Although Absolution is run at a 'gay' venue, it is open to all people and in fact the majority of people that turn up are not gay nor should it matter if they were as most of the regulars just enjoy the fetish scene and have no worry on others sexual orientation.